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A date for the occasion in San Francisco

Hire a girlfriend in San Francisco

Need a date for a wedding, a work event or a formal dinner in San Francisco? Girlfriend Hire introduces men across United States to verified women who accompany them as a strictly platonic guest for one full day — briefed on the occasion, with every boundary agreed in writing first.

Where to meet before the event in San Francisco

  • Hayes Valley
  • North Beach
  • the Mission
  • Pacific Heights

Start times and dress codes

San Francisco's events start early and dress down. A work dinner often begins at six, a gala at half past, and the evening is usually over by ten or eleven. The tech industry has made casual the city's default, so a cocktail dress code is read loosely, but a formal invitation still means it. Layers matter at any event: the fog arrives off the Pacific in the late afternoon, and a terrace that was warm at five is cold by seven.

Getting to the venue

BART runs under Market Street and across the bay, and Muni's buses, streetcars and cable cars cover the city; a Clipper card or a phone pays for both. The hills make short distances slow on foot, especially in formal shoes, so a car to the door is often simplest. A wedding in Napa or Sonoma wine country is an hour or more north, and BART stops around midnight, so a late return needs a ride arranged in advance.

When the San Francisco calendar fills

September and October are the city's warmest, clearest weeks and a favourite time for weddings; Fleet Week in October fills the waterfront. December brings the end-of-year work parties. Summer is often foggy and cool near the ocean, which catches out guests dressed for California sun, and winter brings most of the rain between November and March.

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A city evening with good company.

Taking a date to an occasion in San Francisco

Is a wine-country wedding a long day?

Usually. Napa and Sonoma are an hour or more each way, ceremonies are often outdoors in the afternoon, and evenings in the valleys cool quickly. The plan covers the drive there and back and the hour you leave.

Where should we meet before the event?

A public café in Hayes Valley or North Beach, near the venue and on level ground. Meeting an hour early leaves time to agree how you will introduce each other.

What is a tech company party like?

Usually informal in dress and early in the evening, with plenty of shop talk. Tell us the dress code and which guests your date should know about, and she will come prepared to keep the conversation easy.

Good to know before you book in San Francisco

Availability

Available by request

Response

Replies through the platform, usually the same day

Meeting style

A public first meeting before the event

Strictly platonic, agreed in writing

Every booking is one full day with the plan, the boundaries and the costs agreed before you meet. Either of you can end it at any point.

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Easy company, no pressure on either side.

Occasions people book in San Francisco

Every booking in San Francisco is planned around the event, with the timings, boundaries and costs agreed before you meet.

Cities near San Francisco

Find a date for your occasion in San Francisco

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