The timings
- Where and when you meet before the ceremony
- The ceremony, the photographs, the meal and the speeches
- When the day ends and how she gets home
The dress code
Send the wording from the invitation and the colours to avoid. If there is a theme or a cultural dress code, say so early so she can plan.
Who is who
Five names are enough: the couple, your closest family, and anyone she should know is sensitive. A seating plan helps if you have it.
The story
How you know each other, in one sentence, and what she does. Keep it true where you can.
Anything to avoid
A topic, a relative, a past relationship — tell her once and she will steer around it.
Frequently asked questions
When should I send the brief?
Three to five days before. It is sent through the platform, with the plan you agreed.
Does she need to know my family history?
Only what will come up. Five names and one story are usually enough.
Can we meet before the wedding day?
Yes — a short public meeting beforehand is a good idea, and the first meeting is always public.